Are you real or not? This will be a common question asking by anybody either is a man or a woman. What do you think if someone treat you better, send you a gift and others. In online relationships need tending, you need to take time to grow your relationship over time. Here are some of the tips you can use it.

1.    Take time and make time. Does your online date get in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time to move on.

2.    Communication needs to “feel” right for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time to learn more about each other and develop trust.

3.    Respect each others privacy. Don’t share personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your online date sent you the information in confidence.

4.    Share special online and offline fun times. Online – send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state bird).

Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can sprout and grow.

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I like to dating online. But always need to be aware in 2 area when you try to hook up with mad. So, you need to protect yourself in [tac-tag]online dating relationship[/tec-tag] to prevent you loss their contact information.

First, protecting your computer with anti virus or spyware that going to stealth your personal information. You need to have a firewall and anti-virus protection software where you can find free at Free AntiVir http://www.free-av.com,ZoneAlarm www.zonelabs.com and
Free AVG Anti-Virus www.grisoft.com for email and while you surfing the net and interact online. This software offered at no charge to home computer users with a security solution and not for commercial use.

However, computer protection is still not enough if you are not take care of yourself with too emotional via dating online. By protect yourself from being hurt, you need to choose appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. You can simply do a survey within your friends, neightbors, co-workers and others you may know have tried online dating services and take down the website url. Then, open the sites and have a read their fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. You can find more information about the site by going to http://www.who.is and check their hosting and domain information.

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How to be happy? So you can be a happy people and showing your happy face. Which I think it is important to help you to build a good relationship and friendship.

Believe it or not - that drinking water will make you happier, you can still benefit from drinking lots of water because of the biochemical processes constantly happening in your body. In actual fact, water aids the many functions in our body system.

In other words, drinking lots of water is healthy habit that has many positive benefits. You also have better complexion because the water will flush out impurities in your system.

By explore the happy brain theory comparing traditional psychology with positive psychology. While traditional psychology has been mostly concentrating on the negative side, modern positive psychology aims to repair the worst things in a person’s life to build them into qualities.

“The science of psychology has been far more successful on the negative than on the positive side; it has revealed to us much about man’s shortcomings, his illness, his sins, but little about his potentialities, his virtues, his achievable aspirations, or his psychological height. It is as if psychology had voluntarily restricted itself to only half its rightful jurisdiction, and that the darker, meaner half.” - Abraham Maslow

“The aim of Positive Psychology is to catalyze a change in psychology from a proccupation only with repairing the worst things in life to also building the best qualities in life” - Martin Seligman.

Research has found that negative emotions outweigh the positive emotions in a person.

Negative emotions
Anger - 5584
Worries - 41, 416
Depression a 54,040

Positive emotions
Happiness - 415
Joy - 1,710
Life satisfaction - 2,582

The ratio is 21/1 which is not good news. This statistic shows that the stress level today is higher than in 1960. (research shows about 10 times higher) Conclusion? Positive emotions predict longevity.

Another study was carries out to prove the linkage between being positive and longevity. The study was made of a group of 85 years old. 90% of the group is positive and 34% negative. When they are 94 years old, 54% of the positive group is still alive while only 11% of the negative group lives on.

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Health is very important to maintain the better relationship. Just a month ago, I came across a very harmony family have broken because one of the family members have cancer. This woman have a serious breast cancer, after operation its spreading to his whole body and became a bone cancel. Just past away a month ago, her children was busy in working. No one have time to take care of her. If you have a children, never never think depend on your children to take care of you. They will have their own family to take care off, they will have their job. If you are not a rich person, you have totally can’t sick. You need to take care your own health for better relationship between your family. I saw with my own eye, how her child talk to her. Every single word was really broken her heard.

If you are a teenager, try to imagine. Your grandfather can take care of 5 to 20 children those day. Your father may be can take care of 2 to 4 children for today life. Can you take care any one of your parent?

If you don’t have a healthy body, you may lost opportunity in school activities, sport and so on. Without activities, you have not meet enough friends, so your friends networking will be very narrow. Most of the friends relationship is start from activities, through invitation and dinner. So, your health is everythings.

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I come across so many social networking sites. Everyone try to create a very beautiful portfolio in their personal sites. Some of the common people do are simply adding someone as their friends who have the same interest. This could be very easy when come to manage your friend in the internet.

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For any strong healthy relationship with partners & lovers, there are some qualities which make the relationship strong. A relationship forms as a bond of trust between eachother and supports each other. There are some skills which help you to create a strong bonding with trust in relationships.

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FriendLoLDesign.com is about how to design your own life and happiness via making friends.

Where FriendLoLDesign.com come from?

As I mentioned above, I want to know how to make more friends online with my vision of 1 million friends worldwide. I then, thinking about meeting friends should be a very happy things. So, LOL is a best symbol which I have always used while chatting means laughing loud or happiness. But, that was not enough. Because you can change your life from the type of friends you like, to meet the person you love, to know the person that can match together either in characteristic or personality. That’s how I come with the word design. By designing your personal portfolio, your personal ads, website and blog will help you to attract that kind of friends. However, it’s only a concept and philosophy of mine. That’s why you come to know the name FriendLoLDesign.com

After that I found the name is very long. I have bought another name call FriendLoL.com which I found by meeting friend online in many different location could be the most tired life. I then, bought an online dating software from Russia and turn it into an online community website which I can meet my friends in a 3DCity and 3DChat environment. I offer this 100% free access and free sign up for all my futures 1 million friends at the community. Go to FriendLoL.com

FriendLoLDesign.com will definitely help you in

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4. How to drive traffics with social networking sites, online community, social bookmarking to your personal ads, portfolio, website or blog.
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